After both of you have decided to move forward with getting back together, you will have to take renewed steps to get it right this time. Maybe one of you has a habit of a bad temper.
Renew your mind so that you don’t flare up every time something does not go your way or there’s something you’re not happy about. Making that step to change bad habits is required if you truly want to make your relationship work.
Basically, you are starting all over again with your ex. Make it a fresh start. Think about the first time the two of you met and made it work. Get reacquainted with each other. You will have to get to know each other again from the beginning. Think about some of the special times that you had with your ex. See if you can rekindle some of those times again.
Seek and ask for forgiveness for the mistakes you made in the previous relationship. Also, forgive yourself for what happened. That is the only way that you can move forward without carrying a burden of guilt.
You and your ex need to be willing to change your thinking about certain things. You can’t take some of the same attitudes that you had before and use them. They may be detrimental to your relationship.
Work on rebuilding your future rather than staying stuck in your past. You won’t move forward together if you can’t let go, and focus on what is most important – building a future together.
You and your ex must be willing to listen to each other. In order to communicate effectively, both parties should feel comfortable being open with their thoughts and feelings, regardless how it may make the other person feel at times.
Don’t brush off things that your ex has to say. In essence, you are disconnecting from your ex when you fail to genuinely listen to what is on their minds. Disconnection can lead to a distant relationship and ultimately destroy your chances at staying together.
Nourish the relationship and each other. When you do that, you allow the relationship to grow. Be a caring and affectionate person. Show your ex that you care for them and that you are serious about getting back together.
Work on your differences and don’t let them stop you from moving forward.
Both you and your ex have to trust each other. Trust is very important in a relationship. It’s even more important when you are trying to get back with your ex. Trust makes for a solid foundation in every relationship.
When you are learning to bond with your ex again, take it day by day. Don’t be in a rush to make it right. You want to lead up to it and make it worth your while. This time around, you want your relationship with your ex to last.
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